For what it's worth, point them here. I'm not doing anymore business with freelancer in the face of reading this. Maybe I'm making an uninformed decision but at this point there is little reason for me to stick with them over their competitors if this is even possibly a fair summary of the transaction.
I really want OP to get paid for his work. I feel bad for everything he's going through with Freelancer and what they've gone through the past two years and most importantly, the stress in which his wife is going through. Thanks for emailing on behalf of OP, glad to hear Matt was able to respond to you quickly.
Update: I've emailed several times now with Matt, and he's definitely on top of the situation. I get the impression that he's being vague in his responses to respect OP's privacy (and the others involved). I appreciate that, and he's done a stellar job of responding in general.
Anyway, I think there is more than meets the eye here, and I should have given Freelancer.com a bit more benefit of the doubt. I do hope that eventually more information will become available, as this is a serious issue.
CEO, Matt Barrie email: matt@freelancer.com
Alaister Low twitter.com/@AlaisterLow Director of Customer Experience @freelancer.com: alaister@freelancer.com
This DP forum post says they received an email from the CEO after many unsuccessful tickets from customer service: https://forums.digitalpoint.com/threads/yet-another-freelanc....