Right. Acting. It isn't more difficult for men because their part is, uh, hydraulically obvious. More to the point, it isn't less hard work for women. I get why guys assume it would be, though. Good grief, I bet you probably think you've never seen anyone fake an orgasm outside a porno, too...
Someone has reflexively taken offense at something here. It's clear who and I think I see what, but I have to confess myself still mystified as to why.
All I've said is that women also act and that's also hard work. I didn't say it is the same job, only that it is no easier. Why does that bother you so?
Young men are adorable, but really I feel for you. What you really desperately need is a role model, the same way I did at your age. None is to be found here.