The ideal language is flexible enough to be multi-paradigm, i.e. it allows you to use OO or procedural or functional etc. as needed/desired, but doesn't force any one of those on you. It gets back to something Paul Graham said[0]: roughly that having "ulterior motives" is a bad trait in a language, and I would consider "getting dogmatic about the paradigm they want you to use" to fall under that. But Rome wasn't built in a day, keep that in mind too, specifically concerning newer languages. Sometimes something isn't there but it's on the roadmap.

[0] http://www.paulgraham.com/javacover.html